Today more than ever, there are so many different options to choose from when it comes to memorializing the lives of our pets. The most popular are still the pet urn and the pet grave marker.
However, there are some misconceptions about pet grave markers and pet headstones. It is understandable that people would believe that they are only appropriate for pet burials and pet cemeteries, but they are actually also ideal for cremations and apartment dwellers. How can that be?
Take for instance our beloved 112 lb golden retriever, Bobo, that we lost last spring. We own our home, but don't plan on being here forever. Also, Bobo was a very large dog which would have required us to dig down quite far (you need to check with your county - they often have depth requirements depending on the weight of your animal), so we didn't want to bury him, but we wanted to memorialize him with something special in our yard. We have two small children, so we decided to create a Kidoodlyrock for him (a pet grave marker where we engrave the childrens' drawing of the pet right onto the stone). It's nestled in the ice plant in our backyard and is a beautiful reminder of our big, furry guy. Bobo was cremated. Some people like to keep the ashes of their pets in an urn, but I wanted Bobo returned back to nature, so we didn't keep his ashes. The pet gravestone was perfect for us.
Now, for apartment dwellers, pet grave markers are ideal if you don't want to keep your pet's ashes, or if you would like an indoor reminder of your dear friend. Pet grave markers of many sizes can be placed in a bookstand on and end table, a mantle or a shelf. Oftentimes, people who choose to bury their pet in a pet cemetery, will also do a small marker for inside their home as a gentle reminder.
There are so many special and creative ways to pay tribute to the love and friendship that are pets so generously give to us. Make your tribute as unique and special as your pet was.
In love & respect for all creatures,
Colleen
